Sex and The Middle Aged Woman

Sex and The Middle Aged Woman

So this morning as I was getting ready for work, I had a wondering enter my mind. Is there a coalition with a woman's age and her sexual peak? If it is, what's the reason behind it? Especially when majority of the time, women mature at a more rapid rate than men. I have a few theories and here they are. You may agree with them you may not. This is simple my opinion, from what I've seen in my life thus far.

1. Most women on average, tend to have children in their early twenties. Which means by the time they've reached their late thirties, early forties; their kid(s) ideally would be established and on their own. Which in turn could equate to.

     A. Less worrying about taking care of the kid(s).

     B. Perhaps more sleep.

     C. More time for themselves.

2. At least by the time a woman reaches her mid thirties, a woman should know who she is and be comfortable with what kind of woman she is. Which would or at least it should equate to a confident woman with a secure level of self esteem and self worth.

3. Also by a woman's mid thirties, she should be knowledgeable of her body and what tickles her fancy. I mean Hell... if you don't know what gets you off. How do you expect anyone else too?

Some of you may disagree or even get a tad bit pissed off, but I'm gonna say it anyway.

A woman's orgasm is her responsibility!! Now I'm not saying men aren't needed, but fellas let's be honest. It makes your job so much easier and pleasurable when the woman knows and is in tune with her body. If you think about it. In a way it's linked with her confidence and confidence is a major turn on. Which brings me to my final point.

4. By the time a woman reaches her forties, she has had on average 6-9 sexual partners. No shade if your number is less or more. (Just my own estimate. No mass data was gathered. So calm the fuck down!) Anyway, back to my point. Oh yeah. So with those partners, she should have a very good idea of what she likes, how she likes it and not be timid to express it.

Anyway, those are my thoughts on this particular subject. I know their are women who are in mid life and have no clue as to what floats their boat. It could be for a number of reasons ranging from religion to lack of a supportive partner. But I say life is too damn short to be having horrible sex. Own who you are and never be ashamed of it.